Womens sexual needs

Having trouble getting in the mood or achieving orgasm? The solution might be as simple as knowing what you like in the bedroom. Here are 6 tips that can help women enjoy sexual intimacy. The benefits of sex extend beyond the bedroom.

Ah, the enchanting pixy dust known as sexual desire. But what happens when fairy tale and reality collide? Low sexual desire is a common challenge among women. If a woman is sitting in my office because her sexual desire is less than she thinks or wishes it was, the numbers are irrelevant. This is about her and her unique experience. Women and health care providers alike crave a simple explanation for low desire.

Sex is a motive force bringing a man and a woman into intimate contact. Sexuality is a central aspect of being human throughout life and encompasses sex, gender identities and roles, sexual orientation, eroticism, pleasure, intimacy, and reproduction. Sexuality is experienced and expressed in thoughts, fantasies, desires, beliefs, attitudes, values, behaviors, practices, roles and relationships. Though generally, women are sexually active during adolescence, they reach their peak orgasmic frequency in their 30 s, and have a constant level of sexual capacity up to the age of 55 with little evidence that aging affects it in later life.

I spoke with widows, newlyweds, monogamists, secret liaison seekers, submissives and polyamorists and found there was no such thing as desire too high or low. Male desire is a familiar story. We scarcely bat an eyelash at its power or insistence.